Some people believe that lesbians despise males because they are not sexually or romantically attracted to them.
In general, queer refers to someone who is not heterosexual.
Some lesbians may consider themselves to be queer. However, some of the community’s younger members have reclaimed the word. In the past, the term “queer” was used to denigrate lesbians, homosexual men, and other members of the LGBTQ community.